How do parents communicate with senior three children
1. Mood of Speech: Quiet Communication
Make the child feel that you are speaking to him calmly. Simply speaking, parents should remind themselves not to speak too loudly or too fast, even if they are holding their breath. Children should be allowed to retort and complain, and listen to their own opinions expressed, without rough interruption in the middle. With a calm tone of voice, the same words will be more acceptable to the child, and vice versa, the child will think that you are teaching him, simply can not listen to.
2. Way of speaking: You don't have to be "regular" or "regular".
Nowadays, many children have a lot of natural and casual elements in their personality, so don't talk to them in a rigid way, otherwise they will feel "false" and will instinctively reject them from the bottom of their hearts before parents say anything. It is not necessary to "regularly" or "regularly" communicate with children, nor to copy other people's experience blindly. For example, write a letter every day about what you want to say to your child and put it under your child's pillow. The right way to go in someone's home is not necessarily the right way to go in your own home.
3. Time to Speak: When Children Are Psychologically Prepared
Many parents start counting their children as soon as they get to the table, or chat with them when they are happy. They feel that their children are in a good mood and can listen to whatever they say. In fact, most of the time, the result is often the opposite. Communicating and exchanging opinions with children is best done on the premise that the child is psychologically prepared, so that the child will not feel abrupt, and the criticism or constructive opinions of parents are easy to accept.
1 What should parents pay attention to when communicating with senior three children
1. Don't preach blindly
Many parents know that they should always encourage their children. Some parents even find various textbooks and stories and tell them to their children every day. Others will find some inspirational quotations and other words to send to their children every day. In fact, this method does not apply to everyone, sometimes it will have a negative effect. Parents are advised to adopt some roundabout strategies.
2. Not curious about grades
After each test, parents can't wait to know how many marks their children have scored. In fact, parents can change their point of view, the exam is over, and know how the results can be, it is better to encourage the children appropriately, analyze the test papers, summarize the lessons, so that in the future the exam can avoid the same type of mistakes.
3. Do not conflict with children
Many parents may be more nervous than their children at this stage, sometimes clashing with them. It is not wise to make oneself angry and not to say anything, but also to seriously affect the state of the child. It is suggested that parents should relax their minds and communicate with their children appropriately so as to leave their own space for the candidates.